i wonder how much of the common fandom misconception that the dark side is not actually bad comes from a misunderstanding of where the dark side actually comes from. from what i gather from folks who argue that the dark side isn’t actually bad, it seems they think that someone falls to the dark side because they ‘care too much’ or because of anger over some injustice that must be corrected. if this were true, then the dark side seems pretty reasonable or even the right thing to do, especially for those of us who’ve felt that anger in real life due to an injustice we’ve faced and used it to galvanize our actions
but the dark side isn’t rooted in anger. it’s rooted in fear – fear of loss of power, or control, or life, or another person. fear that can lead to anger, yes, but it’s not the righteous anger of a protector for those less fortunate, but an anger that twists one’s principles and causes hate and suffering. honestly, the dark side has more in common with the hateful people in real life who cause the very injustices we’re angry about, who are often also afraid of a (perceived) loss of power that leads them to mistreat others
The dark side is fear, anger, hate, aggression, selfishness, greed and self-centeredness. These are all within ourselves, all of us. It doesn’t make us bad or evil, but evil behavior arises as a result from being under the sway of this part of ourselves.
The fundamental problem is that there are too many people who heard Yoda saying, “beware of the dark side” and immediately said, he says, “avoid the dark side at all cost.” Which fits neatly into the web notions many people grew up with: “anger is ugly, anger is wrong, anger is bad, anger is nasty therefore, if you feel it, it will make you ugly, wrong, bad, nasty.” But all what Yoda is saying is that the dark side is dangerous so one must be careful with it.
Because yes, anger can be energizing, inspiring, forceful, it will bring you swifter reactions and more decisiveness, but it will distort your perception, because it’s an energy that is just blind.
It’s possible that in some situation, especially when you witness social injustice or want to prevent harm, your compassion for those who suffer brings forth an equally strong feeling of outrage. So, that’s anger is about an injustice. And it can, in a short term, make your mind more focused and give you an extra burst of energy and determination, but when you rely on that anger to get things done, when you relinquish control to your anger, so it will make you powerful, it’s no longer helpful and you become part of the problem.
Because anger will paint a picture of your enemy that is purely and 100% Evil, thus, it’s okay to do evil to them, because you fight against Evil, you’re destroying Evil, so anything you do to them is Good. This is a lie, making you cruel, sadistic, without remorse, someone who takes pleasure in causing pain and suffering. You have to understand and be mindful of the fact that the people who are hurting you and those who you love, are thinking the same about you and those who you love. This is the trap. You feed on and slowly become the same thing that you want to destroy.
This is we must be mindful. To be mindful of one’s emotions is to be conscious and aware of them - generally, they are making us to respond immediately, without any conscious thought, pushing us to act upon them, driven by them. However, by bringing our emotions into the space of our conscious and passive, i.e. non-judgmental and non-reactive awareness, with calmness and inner peace, their power to kick us out of the driver’s seat, to narrow our perspective and distort our perception of reality falls away: we can find the gap between the moments of our experience and the reaction, response, where we have control, and not falling under the sway of fear, anger, aggression or hatred.






